Wednesday, February 14, 2018

GASLIGHTING - DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?


This is a repost because I continue to run into people who go through this particular experience, which is very unpleasant.

Have you ever fallen in love with someone who made you question your own sanity?  Have you caught your significant other in a compromising position, yet you somehow ended up being the one who is guilty?  Have friends you've had for years suddenly stopped calling because they've been told you're "crazy" or a "psycho bitch"?  You're not alone, and NO, nothing is mentally wrong with you. But you are in an emotionally abusive relationship.  



If you've ever seen the black and white classic movie Gas Light from 1944, you may remember how Charles Boyer did everything he could to make his wife Ingrid Bergman go insane in an attempt to gain her money.  
I watched this movie and was horrified at the things he did. The technical term for gas lighting is someone who repeatedly tricks a person into questioning his or her memory or perception of events with the use of lies, omissions of the actual facts, or falsehoods. 

Your husband told you he would be home to pick you up for dinner, yet when he arrives late, he said he told you he had to work late and you must have misheard him.

You know you heard your lover in the background with another woman in your home while you were on the phone, but you're accused of being delusional.  You're emphatic that you left $35.00 on the bed stand, and now it's mysteriously missing.  Your best friend took a picture of your man driving around town with another woman, but he'll tell you it's his cousin whom you've never heard of. With your own eyes, you've seen another woman walking across the street to get into his truck or car, but he denies your claims. 

Right in front of you he texts at certain periods of the day, and when caught, he yells that you're a nag, then tells you "that's not what I was doing". If you tell his family how he's been acting, no one believes it.  These are some of the stories I hear about all the time.

 
Meanwhile, he tells anyone who will listen that something is wrong with you.  The close friendships you had are now over.  


That's the gist of being emotionally abused. It's a covert tactic to control and manipulate the victim, who just happens to be you. It's difficult to see, so it may be very hard to prove. 

In my opinion, a man who does this has no balls, and it makes me angry.  Instead of being truthful, he gets joy from making you think that you're imagining things. You're put down, degraded, called names, and yelled at for no reason.  Normal conversations are very rare. 


Sharing your own feelings are nonexistent. Nothing you say or do is right.  If something goes wrong in life, you get blamed. When he loses his car keys, it's all your fault. Maybe you've gained weight from the stress, and told that no one will want you anyway. You should be lucky he's even around. There are days the tears are endless, hoping he will treat you with the dignity or respect you deserve. You just want to be loved unconditionally. Sadly, you feel alone. 

Living like this can be a nightmare, but all is not lost.  Some women reach their breaking point and just walk away.  But the thought of having no money or a place to live can be frightening. The fear of what people may think  makes you want to curl into a ball of despair.


Starting today, look in the mirror and believe that you are beautiful and strong because you are.  Keep telling yourself that you deserve to be happy every day. Think about all the things you used to do.
Then document, document, document!  Keep dates, places, situations and names if you can. Be specific. Use a Planner, notebook or a diary.  Even better, send emails to yourself or a family member, and make sure your password is protected. Not only will this make you feel better, but you'll also have a detailed record for legal reasons.
If you have access to cash, send yourself a Moneygram or Western Union. You are the only person who can ever gain access to those funds. Walk around the block to clear your mind every day. Even if it's just for 5 minutes. Look in the mirror to remind yourself how beautiful you are.  Try to make a safety plan.  If you are unable to speak with a pastor or close friend you can trust who supports you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 

They are experts in all phases, and will provide shelter to those in need. They also have a Chat Line. There are also local places to contact wherever you live.

It's 2018, yet there are literally thousands of people who minimize this type of abuse or think that it's okay. "Words will never hurt me" is a lie. In fact, I hear that "it's not that serious" all the time.  Verbal abuse is still considered a part of domestic violence.  It is what it is.

You deserve the joy that life has to offer. It doesn't matter if you're 18 or 80!

Remember, 2018 is your year to start over!




















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  1. Ro, I think most abuse starts with emotional abuse. I dealt with this in my marriage, I've always been someone who never thought I would put up with that but I found myself in the middle of it not understanding how I got there. When I came to the decision that I didn't care about anything but getting out I found the strength to move on. I started analyzing how I got there and I could actually pin point the day it started, he said something that I phoo phoo'd and because I did it escalated. We need to stand up for ourselves right away and be prepared to walk away immediately.

    I hope all women that are in this situation find the strength to walk away, it was the best thing I ever did for myself xox

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  2. It's sad to think that so many people are in emotionally abusive relationships.

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    1. It totally makes me hurt, angry and frustrated at the same time that this goes on. Hugs...

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  3. My mom's friend went through this and two of my aunts. They really struggled with knowing what was truth or deception b/c of the messing with the mind stuff. You have some good strong advice there at the end.

    Thanks so much for addressing this.

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    1. This had to be rough on friends and family, and I imagine everyone was wondering how to fix the situation. That struggle is something many people just don't get or understand. Thanks so much for sharing, Sophia, and I'm thrilled that your mom's friend and your aunts have their lives back. Hugs...

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    1. I hope someone can read this and know that she is not alone.Hugs....Angela!

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  5. Yeah, it's a favorite behavior of abusers...and narcissists. I did date a guy who was all Romeo on me until one day he abruptly decided he wasn't. And then I was the psycho for wondering what went wrong. I didn't stalk him or anything...but he didn't bring out the best in my personality when he suddenly went from lovey-dovey to cold as ice. I think he may have had a large degree of narcissism. He was VERY into himself and he still can't keep a relationship going for long...

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    1. OMG Steph, that had to be quite a shock! But that's how most of them start out, I think. They lean on bringing out the worst to make others think badly of you, when they are the culprits. I read somewhere that narcissists fail in 95% of their relationships. That's a super high percentage. Thank goodness you kicked him to the curb.

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  6. This is absolutely terrifying to think about. Reading this and knowing these kinds of horror stories are the reality of so many people makes me very grateful that I'm in a loving and supportive marriage where we are a team. Gaslight is one of the creepiest movies I've ever seen. It's been years since I've watched it but I remember every little detail.

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    1. I love hearing about good relationships Kathy, because so often I hear about the bad side that people want to get out of. It's all about teamwork and support for sure. It was a crazy movie. I couldn't believe the things he was doing to his own wife! Hugs...

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  7. Wow, imagine being in a situation like that, yikes... Will have to check out the movie.

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    1. Very sad for sure. The movie will definitely have you scratching your head. Thanks so much for stopping by! Hugs...

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  8. It is scary and too many people are going through this right now.

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    1. I know, right? Something like this for someone to deal with is very sad and frightening. Hope you're doing well today Kim. Hugs...

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  9. So most of these memes just reminded me of my relationship with my sister.. warning flag maybe?!?! - http://www.domesticgeekgirl.com

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  10. I think this will resonate with most of us for one relationship or another. Great advice Ro. #getsocial2017 (Bambi Unbridled)

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    1. Hey There Jen, and thanks for stopping by! Sadly, that is a true statement. What saddens me is that there are men who do this to women and don't feel bad about it at all. Crazy!

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  11. Sadly I've had a number of women do that in regular friendships. People can really suck, can't they? :/

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    1. Girl, don't get me started. (lol) Hugs...

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  12. Wow. I wouldn't have thought of a Moneygram. What a great idea. I'm assuming it can sit, without being cashed in, for an indefinite time?

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    1. Good question, Sandra. I asked about that once when someone sent me a moneygram because I forgot my ID. The cashier told me not to worry about it, it'll be sitting here waiting until you pick it up. No one else can get it without the proper ID and reference number. Interesting, By the way, I can't tell you how much I appreciate your kindness in giving me a shout out. I'm a celebrity for a day. (lol) Hugs...

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  13. Such an important post. Thanks for sharing this difficult topic.

    #GetSocial17

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    1. Hey Melissa and thanks for stopping by. It's great when people can get the word out about the craziness of domestic violence. Hugs...

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  14. It's so sad that anyone would have to live with someone who did this to them.

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  15. You're been sharing some important information. Thank you!

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    1. Hey Angela, I found a restaurant in Philly sounded so cool, and is called "Love and Honey Fried Chicken" located at 1100 Front Street. I sure wish I could airmail myself there to check this out for the weekend. (lol) Hope yours is as great as you are! I hope one tip can make a difference from someone in trouble. Hugs...

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  16. I found your blog thanks to Sandra Cox. :)

    Such an important post! I have never heard of the term gas lighting and haven't seen the movie you mentioned. You gave such great advice. Thanks so much for sharing. :)
    ~Jess

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    1. Sandra is so amazing, right? The fact that there are people in the world who do these mean-spirited things is frightening, so I hope a few words make a difference for someone. I am so thrilled that you stopped by to say hello, Jess and hope your weekend is fabulous! Hugs...

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  17. I love this post - it has some great information. Gaslighting is just horrible, but it happens to a lot of people and THEY feel like they are the problem.

    -Lauren

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    1. Hey Lauren, and thanks so much for the kind words. I just pray that something on here can help someone in trouble. No one should have to deal with this nightmare. Hope you have an absolutely fabulous weekend! Hugs...

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  18. That sounds so bad, and I am sure there are plenty of girls out there doubting themselves.

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    1. I know right? The fact that a person would treat another human being like this makes me very angry. It happens more than you can imagine. Thanks so much for stopping by, Tamara! Hugs...RO

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    1. Thanks a bunch Terry. Hope your day is fantastic! Hugs...RO

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  20. What a great post, Ro. There's a lot of good ideas and information. I've never heard the term "gas lighting". I don't know if I'd be able to stomach that movie.

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    1. It's a darn shame that the word even exists Kristin, and I can tell you that the movie really had my head spinning. Hug and Happy Friday! RO

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  21. I really love it that you post things like that. So important! I hope the people who sorely need this advice will be able to read this material. I hope they find it...

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    1. Thanks so much for your kind words and offering support. Hope your Friday is fabulous! Hugs...RO

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  22. I do love the mirror thing, we should all do it

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    1. It is a way to make us love ourselves for sure. Hugs and Happy Friday! RO

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  23. I remember that film well. Some people only feel good when they are harming others. This is a very informative post. Hugs, Valerie

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    1. I've seen it 3 times, and each time I learned something new. It's sad that people actually enjoy doing things like this. Hugs...and Happy Friday Valerie! RO

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  24. I am pleased you included the part about properly documenting such behaviour. Even that act might be enough to motivate you to act and move on.

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    1. You make a good point Andrew. Sometimes actually seeing it all written down can be the "aha" moment to change things. Hugs...RO

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  25. I am happy your highlighting suck an important issue!! So many women don;t realize that emotional abuse can be just as toxic as physical abuse. Awesome Memes as well! Tori @ In Tori Lex

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    1. The emotional abuse really lowers a person's self esteem, and it's so draining. Thanks so much for your support Tori! Hugs...RO

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  26. I hate to think of anyone being in this kind of situation.
    Good info for those that are, that's for sure.
    Happy Valentine's, Rockin Ro.
    Hugs

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    1. It is definitely a nightmare and very sad, Sandra. I hope someone can read this and get help. Hugs...RO

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  27. Thanks for sharing this, it's awful that anyone would have to deal with this, but I bet it's more common than we even think.

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    1. Sadly, it is. I hate to see or hear about situations like this, because it drains a person, and really lowers self esteem. Hugs...RO

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  28. I had a relationship with a friend that was similar to this. I finally had to "break up" with her for my own mental health. Thanks for continuing to share this very important information.

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    1. Wow! That had to be rough to cope with Lana. Thank goodness, you weere able to move on. Hugs...RO

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  29. while reading you i found the name of movie familier and when i saw the trailer i remembered that i have watched this movie almost 28 years back .

    excellent writing here ,very inspiring and thought provoking!!!

    i agree that in each relationship such periods come when people try to mad each other for different reasons , who ignore such abusive behaviours do wrong to themselves and consequences are dangerous .

    i was never one of them who gave up and beard it .
    i never ever did bad to anyone and never ever allowed to do bad to me simply !
    thank you so much for uplifting piece of writing

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    1. I've seen it three times, and the only place I ran across it was on Turner Classic Movies. Seeing it happen in a movie makes you think, but actually living it is like being on a rollercoaster that never stops. You're right, it can be dangerous. Thank goodness you found the love of your life and are so happy. Your love story is so wonderful. Hugs...RO

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  30. Thank you for bringing attention to this important issue.

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    1. Very sad that it even occurs, Angela. Happy Friday and Hugs...RO

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  31. I had a boyfriend try to gaslight me once. In fact, he did it several times until I told him the problem was his, not mine. Good for you for reposting this.

    BTW, have you checked your e-mail? If not, please do.

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    1. Thank goodness you got out of that relationship Elizabeth. Had to be a nightmare to deal with. Going to check email right now. I usually check it first thing and came over here instead because I'm trying to play catch up as usual. (lol) Hugs...RO

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  32. Just stopping by on the way to the dentist to say hope today is a grand one and don't forget your aerobics:)
    Hugs,

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    1. I hope you're now pain free from that dang root canal Super Sandra, and ready to eat some really yummy food. Happy Friday and HUGE Hugs...RO

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  33. It is sickening...

    You do good work, to help such people.

    I don't believe we will get "Jewels In Our Crown." :-) But if anyone will get them, you will!!!!!!

    Hugs, hugs, hugs, hugs, hugs

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    1. LOL! Your words are very kind and much appreciated. Hope your Friday is fantastic! Hugs...RO

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  34. Thank you for the lovely comment you left in my blog, yesterday. Thank you much!

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    1. You're quite welcome, and I hope you're feeling much better today. Sending some cyber hugs your way. RO

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  35. It's sad that someone would do this to another person. Thanks for putting this info out there.

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    1. It is sad Mary, and I'll never understand it. Hugs...RO

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  36. RO, this is so important for people to hear. It makes me sick to think of this happening to people, and it can be hard to get out of. Kudos to you for posting not just an explanation, but specific steps people (I would say women, but it isn't always women, though they are certainly by far the majority) can take to get out of the relationship and get help.

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    1. I cringe every time I see or hear about it Lark. I've actually watched the movie 3 times because it teaches me something new each time. That people can be this cruel for their own self interests is crazy. True, it happens more to women, but I've heard some horror stories from men who have suffered as well, or those even in same sex relationships. Sadly, things won't change, and the relationship never improves, meaning the partner needs to run! Hugs...RO

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  37. Yes, I've read about this happening to people. Its sad that people can be so inhuman and abusive towards others. Thanks for posting this.

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    1. It's really a sad situation for sure. Hugs and Happy Friday! RO

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  38. I heard of the word, but never knew what it meant

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    1. It's a sad thing that the word was ever created, Adam. I hate so much that any human being would make another person suffer like this and sleep comfortably at night. Hugs...RO

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  39. Definitely bears repeating. Thanks, Radiant Ro! You're our light. :)

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    1. You're always so supportive Sophia! I really appreciate you! Hugs and Happy Friday! RO

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  40. Emotional Abuse is just as damaging as physical and people often don't see it. Great post Ro, people really need to understand.

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    1. It really hurts Kimberly for sure. Thanks for the support, as always! Hugs...RO

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  41. I don't remember hearing the term gaslighting. Now I am curious about that movie, too. I am so glad you are reposting this and reminding people that verbal and emotional abuse is very definitely abuse. Keeping records is so important and I also think putting money somewhere is another great tip. With cell phones, people could maybe even record some conversations (for their own sanity). Thanks for sharing and continuing to help others!!

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    1. Hey There Stephanie and hope all is well! It's sad that this term even came into existence, but it's so sad for those who go through it. I hope you get a chance to check this out. Great idea about the recording of calls. Hugs...RO

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  42. I seem to only fall in love with meant hat make me question my sanity. It’s horrible habit that I just can’t seem to break. Emotional abuse is just as bad as physical abuse in my book. I’ve never seen Gas Light but I l love old movies, I’m going to have to check it out! Have a great weekend Ro :)

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    1. You're a beautiful and talented woman, and I know there's someone out there who will love and adore you as you deserve. You're right about the verbal abuse. It can be bad. I try to look for warning flags in conversations right away these days. Hugs...RO

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  44. You did a great job with this, RO. As you know, I've been through this and it sucked. So grateful to have all of that behind us now.

    Elsie

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  45. Wow is good to be back with my ex again, thank you Dr Ekpen for the help, I just want to let you know that is reading this post in case you are having issues with your lover and is leading to divorce and you don’t want the divorce, Dr Ekpen is the answer to your problem. Or you are already divorce and you still want him/her contact Dr Ekpen the spell caster now on (ekpentemple@gmail.com) or whatsapp him on +2347050270218 and you will be clad you did

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  46. What a great and inspiring story! I was married for seven years without any child, because of this my husband start acting strange, coming home lately and not spending time with me any more and he divorced me. So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life miserable for me. until i came across a friend who told me about DR ODION from the Internet, how he has helped a lot of women with this similar problems that i am going through so i contacted him on: (drodion60@yandex.com) and explained to him. he told me all what to provide before he could cast a reunite spell to bring back my husband which i did and he sent a powerful prayer which i had to say at mid night while he cast the love spell. It was a miracle, 24 hours later my one and only husband came back to me and apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,i quickly call DR ODION and told him what was going on at that moment and he also prepared and sent me a herbal medicine which he said it will cure every unwanted diseases or infections that has been stopping me from conceiving then instructed me on how to use it before meeting with my husband. Behold after using this native herbs and root, few weeks later i started feeling pregnancy signs all over me, truly i was pregnant i just gave birth to a baby boy on the 1st of this month. I Vow to let the whole world know about DR ODION for saving my relationship and for also giving me children i can proudly call my own today. For any woman who think it impossible, here is an opportunity for you to smile and bring happiness to your family kindly contact DR ODION via Email on: (drodion60@yandex.com).  or WhatsApp him via +2349060503921 Indeed, he is a God sent to bring back lost lovers and bring you happiness...

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  47. What a great and inspiring story! I was married for seven years without any child, because of this my husband start acting strange, coming home lately and not spending time with me any more and he divorced me. So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life miserable for me. until i came across a friend who told me about DR ODION from the Internet, how he has helped a lot of women with this similar problems that i am going through so i contacted him on: (drodion60@yandex.com) and explained to him. he told me all what to provide before he could cast a reunite spell to bring back my husband which i did and he sent a powerful prayer which i had to say at mid night while he cast the love spell. It was a miracle, 24 hours later my one and only husband came back to me and apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,i quickly call DR ODION and told him what was going on at that moment and he also prepared and sent me a herbal medicine which he said it will cure every unwanted diseases or infections that has been stopping me from conceiving then instructed me on how to use it before meeting with my husband. Behold after using this native herbs and root, few weeks later i started feeling pregnancy signs all over me, truly i was pregnant i just gave birth to a baby boy on the 1st of this month. I Vow to let the whole world know about DR ODION for saving my relationship and for also giving me children i can proudly call my own today. For any woman who think it impossible, here is an opportunity for you to smile and bring happiness to your family kindly contact DR ODION via Email on: (drodion60@yandex.com).  or WhatsApp him via +2349060503921 Indeed, he is a God sent to bring back lost lovers and bring you happiness...

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  48. HOW I GOT MY EX BACK WITH THE HELP OF DR IFADE. Contact him for help via his Email OR Whatsapp number. ifadesolutionspell31@gmail. com +2349060120490.

    My name is Petra Gerrard. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kids to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address ifadesolutionspell31@gmail. com , have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks To DR IFADE. His email: ifadesolutionspell31@gmail. com OR.His WhatsApp Number:+2349060120490.


    HOW I GOT MY EX BACK WITH THE HELP OF DR IFADE. Contact him for help via his Email OR Whatsapp number. ifadesolutionspell31@gmail. com +2349060120490.

    My name is Petra Gerrard. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kids to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address ifadesolutionspell31@gmail. com , have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks To DR IFADE. His email: ifadesolutionspell31@gmail. com OR.His WhatsApp Number:+2349060120490.

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  49. HOW I GOT MY EX BACK WITH THE HELP OF DR IFADE. Contact him for help via his Email OR Whatsapp number. ifadesolutionspell31@gmail. com +2349060120490.

    My name is Petra Gerrard. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kids to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address ifadesolutionspell31@gmail. com , have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks To DR IFADE. His email: ifadesolutionspell31@gmail. com OR.His WhatsApp Number:+2349060120490.

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  50. This comment i Susan is placing is not like the day by day advert you read online before!! Its a comment that you must read to avoid been ripped off and know the real spell caster on earth God sent to change and turn lives around without any harm / side effect.
    I am so over joyful as my month can not start to say all that really happened, It happened when i saw Ajayi advert online talking about been the best when there are so many spell casters online that i have used that has failed me.I spent almost close to $8000 dollars online for those spell casters that ripped me off my money without any result. But when i saw Dr Ajayi advert online saying that there is no spell caster like him and so many other testimonies about him from various people and from various countries in the world were it was written that ololo spell temple is the best that there is non to be compared to his work, Already i have personally take a decision never to apply to any spell caster online again after loosing such amount of funds on line to those scammers.But i don’t really know what drew my spirit / attention to that advert online that faithful afternoon, { I call it a faithful afternoon because all i desire was granted to me. } There was an email at the end of his advert and on the good comment from the FBI and various people about him, I decided to send him an email telling him my problem about my lost job, money that i have lost to scammers and also having problems with the love of my life that i want to get married to. After some few minutes i received an email from him that contain the spell application form that i filled out and he told me that to get my spell casted that i will have to get some items that i could not get here when i went in-search for it. He said if i can not get the items, That is going to cost me an amount of just $390 dollars for my kind of case that i told him about which i doubted to be another scam online, As i have read so many tips online that money should not be sent to someone you do not know via western union / money gram payment information’s. And Dr Ajayi insisted that i will be sending money to his messenger via this wire means. I was so skeptical because i was scammed in such a way of $700 dollars before,But this same spirits that attracted me to his advert told me inside again that this spell caster is real and noting but real that i should go ahead and send him the amount since i know that there is no how i can get the items that he told me that will be needed for my case. I sent him the charges through his messenger to please help me get the item with the money to get my spell casted.He promised me that in the next 5 to 7 hours that i will start to see results after the spell has been casted to get the love of my life back and others. I could not believe this because i have really been scammed and ripped off too many times for me to just believe till it works. To be sincere i almost faint as i was filled with so much excitement and happiness when my lost lover for over almost 9 months call was entering my phone and i picked the call were he ask if we can see to take things over and also my boss called me to tell me to come for training on my terminated job also due to too many thinking that in the office that result to it. Then in the next 2 days the FBI called to tell me that they have been able to get the scammer that is with my money. I am so proud and happy to spread the good-news about this man because he surprised me in his wonderful and powerfully work that restored back to me my heart desires. One thing that i also loved about this man is that he is understandable and he reduce or negotiate how much you can get for the work you want him to help you with. You want to meet with this great,most powerful spell caster that is 100% scam free,Just send your emails to this email: ajayiololo@yahoo.com as you will get help from him without any disappointment.

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  51. EFFECTIVE AND POWERFUL LOVE SPELL CASTER AND LOTTERY SPELL DR.OJOKASPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL. COM OR WHATSAPP HIM :+2348144172934  
    My ex-boyfriend dumped me one week ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the Internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 2 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr Ojoka. You are truly talented and gifted. Email; dr.ojokspelltemple@gmail.com or Whats App +2348144172934 is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man  
    check his website http://Drojokaspelltemple.website2.me 










    EFFECTIVE AND POWERFUL LOVE SPELL CASTER AND LOTTERY SPELL DR.OJOKASPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL. COM OR WHATSAPP HIM :+2348144172934  
    My ex-boyfriend dumped me one week ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the Internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 2 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr Ojoka. You are truly talented and gifted. Email; dr.ojokspelltemple@gmail.com or Whats App +2348144172934 is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man  
    check his website http://Drojokaspelltemple.website2.me 







    EFFECTIVE AND POWERFUL LOVE SPELL CASTER AND LOTTERY SPELL DR.OJOKASPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL. COM OR WHATSAPP HIM :+2348144172934  
    My ex-boyfriend dumped me one week ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I reach to the Internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 2 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr Ojoka. You are truly talented and gifted. Email; dr.ojokspelltemple@gmail.com or Whats App +2348144172934 is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man  
    check his website http://Drojokaspelltemple.website2.me 

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  52. This is a testimony that I will tell everyone to hear. i have been married four 4 years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2 years until i meant a post where this man Dr, kuta have helped someone and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my love Husband home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48 hours as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self His email: drkutaherbalcenter@gmail.com you can also contact him or whatspp him on this +2347054547814 thank so much

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  53. I was cured of HIV with the used of natural herbs.I love herbs so much.
    Most times, injection and drugs are just a waste of time. I was cured 8months
    ago, i suffered from HIV for 13yrs but with the help of Dr. voodoo herbal medicine, i was cured within few weeks of drinking the herbs he sent to me through courier delivery service. This same doctor also cured my Aunty from herpes,as soon as i heard she had herpes, i quickly refer her to Dr. voodoo and she was cured too after drinking his herbs.I have referred more than 15 persons to Dr. voodoo and they were all cured from their various illness. Have you taken herbs before?. You have spent so much money on drugs,injections,surgeries etc and yet you have no good result to show for it. Contact Dr. voodoo now, he is a herbalist doctor, i assured you of a cure if you drink his natural herbs. Dr. voodoo have herbs that cures HIV, Herpes, diabetics, asthma, hepatitis, HBP, STD, cancer, chronic, etc. Contact Dr voodoo through his Email address on: voodoospelltemple66@gmail.com or WHATSAP/CALL him on +2348140120719 Please share the good news to other people once you are cured

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