Tuesday, February 7, 2017

YOUR NEIGHBOR IS BEING ABUSED...WHAT DO YOU DO?

 Before I get started on today's rant, I need to give a major shout out to my girl Lissa from http://lastraingirl.blogspot.com/. She graciously used her amazing artistic skills to re-create my Blog Header and I just love, love, love it! And she's a book lover too! Stop by her blog to check out some of her fabulous artwork and say hello. p.s. - did you notice the cheeseburger?!(lol)

Lissa's Artwork

The people I run into or hear about on a daily basis never cease to shock me, and I couldn't make this stuff up if I tried.  


My friend *Amy recently moved and told me about her new neighbor *Jane, who lived next door. Jane was friendly, talkative and super eager to help my friend take some things into the house.  Now Amy is nice, but until she gets to know someone, she can appear to be standoffish.  She displays that demeanor because she is very shy.  Meanwhile, Jane frequently reached out to Amy by asking her over to visit, or to offer her food. Jane always made these gestures of kindness when her husband wasn't around. Needless to say my friend really didn't want to be bothered.  

A few days later while Amy walked to her car, she heard this:  Shut the ***k up.  I don't care about your ******g mother, and get your ass back in the house.  You've probably already guessed that the man (I use the term lightly) speaking was Jane's husband.  
You know - the guy you marry because he's madly in love with you.  If you've ever seen the exorcist, you remember how Linda Blair's head spun around, and that's just what Amy's did.  Then she glared at him with daggers before getting into her car.


Amy told her husband, who promptly told her to "mind her business", but now her job in life is to make Jane's husband miserable, and to spend as much time as possible with Jane. 


As I think about this scenario, I know that Jane is in trouble, and so does Amy.  Verbal abuse is horrible, and we're wondering what could be happening to her physically once the doors are closed and no one can see.

Have you ever had something like this happen while you were at a family gathering, a company function, or in your neighborhood. Do you just keep your mouth shut and say nothing, or will this guy be on your hit list?  Do you get involved in a subtle way? How do you handle one good neighbor and one bad neighbor in the same house when you live right next door?
Verbal abuse is still considered part of domestic violence. 


*Not real names



Thursday, February 2, 2017

YOU'RE TIRED OF BLOGGING...NOW WHAT?

Have you ever visited one of your favorite blogs, and found it to be missing in action?  Some of the posts may be outdated by months, or even years with no mention of what may have happened.  Sadly, another really good blog that was active on a daily basis and super funny, has decided to close down his or her blog.

A little while back, I got way behind with postings and commenting, and there was a feeling that I had nothing left to say. Still,  I've never really had the urge to stop doing this blogging thing.  It's fun to come up with new topics, and getting other viewpoints makes it even more interesting.  

There are several blogs I've come across lately that give really good tips on design, or staying focused, freebies or getting healthy.


Then I always enjoy finding out about brand new novels and authors, and their reviews are very much appreciated.  Then there are those bloggers who really pull you into their world with heartfelt stories of life in general.  We hear about family, pets, work, illness, trips, or abuse. But there are also plenty of  success stories that keep us motivated. Somehow, we feel connected to that blogger.
I think the reason to quit may be tied to the reason we start to blog. Was our intent to get rich, share reviews on products or books, cooking ideas or more?  Do we still love those things?


I did some research and found several bloggers who make BIG money on a monthly basis.  An entertainment site, www.Mashable.com makes over $650,000 a month from Google Ad Sense alone!  Here's an example of a Lifestyle money-making blog called PinchofYum.com. This data comes from www.bloggerspassion.com.  Wow!

Introduction:
Pinchofyoum.com TeamPinchofyum.com is a food blog owned by a husband and wife team Lindsay and Bjork. Lindsay is a teacher, pug lover, and dessert eater from Minnesota handles the writing, photography and cooking part while the technicalities and making money is handled by her husband Bjork. Why they are into blogging? Well.. here are the reasons given by Lindsay herself:
Blogging is a lot of work. So why do it?
There are so many things about this process that have been meaningful and rewarding for me.
  • sharing yummy food with other food lovers
  • helping others start their own blog
  • sharing photography tips in a food photography eBook
  • developing the blog into a source of income
  • showing others how they can do the same in our monthly income reports
Plus a big benefit of the income that we earn from the blog is that it helps us make this year of living and working in the Philippines a reality.
The team at pinchofyum.com regularly posts recipes to their blog. The frequency of posting varies between 25-30 posts per month and enjoys a good readership. The blog posts are loaded with eye-catching pictures of the recipes. It is obvious from the quality of things that the team takes good care of what goes live on their blog. Pinchofyum.com is a part of Blogher blogging network.
Vital Statistics:
Listed below are some important statistics for the blog pinchofyum.com:
  • Alexa Traffic Rank: 14702
  • Alexa Traffic Rank in US: 4697
  • Sites Linking In (according to Alexa): 4517
  • Domain Authority (DA): 63/100
  • No of pages indexed in Google: 1200
  • Twitter Followers: 10.5K
  • Facebook Likes: 56633
  • Lindsay Ostorm in Google + Circles: 5826
  • Feedburner Readers: NA
  • Email Subscribers: NA
Their Earnings Report:
  • Month: October 2016
Income Breakdown:
  • Tasty Food Photography – $595.00
  • Bluehost – $3,450 (Learn how to install WordPress in 5 Minute)
  • sovrn – $537.80
  • Elegant Themes – $79.50
  • Genesis Theme – $439.71
  • Gourmet Ads – $1,471.13
  • Amazon Associates – $2,480.16
  • How to Monetize Your Food Blog eBook – $315.00
  • YouTube Earnings – $39.44
  • AdThrive – $37,669.42
  • Sponsored Posts & speaking – $17,334.00
  • Swoop – 2,423.24
But I bet some of us have run into a few occasions where we come up empty or feel a little bit of burnout.  I'm sure we may have come in contact with some negativity that we could definitely live without.  But are these things enough to make you pull your hair out and simply throw in the towel?


The other day on Facebook I was shocked by a post.  Twenty years ago, I would have laughed about this along with everyone else.  At this point in my life, I know that those who are homeless or victims of domestic violence may not have time to bathe because they left their homes with nothing, or are out on the street with nowhere to go.  They're embarrassed and hurting. What saddened me about this post is that this woman works in the health AND beauty industry.  I just expected a better response from such a classy woman. Her Facebook  post is listed below.


"Public Service Announcement!! Please to all my FB family & friends can you make sure that before you go to the doctor or anywhere please take a bath , shower ,wash up at the sink which ever suits you but wash your ass please !!! This is the negative side of working in the medical field .. It's just so disrespectful to come to the doctor smelling like you haven't bathed in weeks ðŸ˜·ðŸ¤¢ nobody wants to smell your stinking ass !!! ðŸ˜¡ðŸ˜¤ðŸ˜©ðŸ˜– "

Monday, January 30, 2017

CAN YOU HULA HOOP & DO YOU LOAN OUT YOUR THINGS?


A wooden ring that was selling in retail stores in 1957 by an Australian Company made Richard P. Knerr and Arthur K. Melin of Wham-O in California pay attention.  In 1958, they recreated the ring into a colorful plastic hoop and sold it for $1.98. This is unbelievable, but in just 4 months they sold 25 million of those now classic toys called the Hula Hoop! 

The person who kept  the hoop spinning the longest is Aaron Hibbs from Ohio. How long did he actually keep it going?  74 hours and 54 minutes! Now that's some serious aerobic activity.


As a kid, I could rock that hoop on my neck, hips and my ankles with no problem.  Now, I'm totally embarrassed to admit I can't keep it moving for even a full body roll. (lol) In fact, I  checked around with some other friends and not one of them can still Hula Hoop either! (lol)


What about you?  Still have what it takes to keep that ring spinning round and round and round?

Blood Orange Bars 





Directions

  1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Line an 8x8x2-inch baking pan with foil, extending the foil over the edges of the pan. Grease foil; set aside.
  2. For crust, in a large bowl stir together the 1 cup flour, the 3 tablespoons powdered sugar, and the 1/4 teaspoon salt. Using a pastry blender, cut in butter until mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Press mixture evenly and firmly into the bottom of the prepared pan. Bake about 15 minutes or until light golden around the edges.
  3. In a medium bowl whisk together the granulated sugar, eggs, orange peel, orange juice, and food coloring (if using) until smooth. Stir in the 2 tablespoons flour and the 1/4 teaspoon salt. Pour orange mixture over the hot crust.
  4. Bake for 20 to 25 minutes or until set. Cool completely in pan on a wire rack. Use foil to lift uncut bars out of pan. Place on a cutting board. Cut into bars. Dust bars with powdered sugar.

DO YOU EVER LOAN BOOKS OR OTHER ITEMS TO FRIENDS OR FAMILY?
When I was younger, I was the go to person for lipstick, socks books and movies.  In most instances, I didn't want to be the bad guy by saying no.  It didn't take long before I was taken advantage of.  Some things came back ruined, but more often than not, I never saw the merchandise again.

 No one really understood how important these things were, and I ended up having to re-purchase what I could.  Some items could never be replaced.


I think you already know that I rarely lend anything out these days. (lol)  I'm okay if someone gets mad at me.  That insures my precious book collection stays in order, or I don't have to waste time finding that crazy lipstick color again.  Do you loan your items?



Don't you just love new ways to find FREE Stuff?  These are two really cool sites.  

Hunt4Freebies.com - Various categories of free stuff you'll love

Fribbble.com -  Design Fonts, Templates, etc.



Tuesday, January 24, 2017

TREMENDOUS DIPS AND TIDBITS

Hector Manuel Sanchez
Aren't you tired of seeing the same old dips that are store bought and blah? With Superbowl just around the corner, these dips are sure to score a touchdown if they're taken to a potluck, or you're the one who is hosting the party.  Even better, these recipes from Lisa Cericola of Southern Living serve up to 8 people and are very simple to make. 

BACON-PIMENTO GUACAMOLE
Coarsely mash 3 peeled and pitted ripe avocados with 2 1/2 tbsp Lime Juice and 3/4 Kosher salt. Fold in 1 drained 4 oz jar diced Pimentos, 1/4 cup chopped Red Onions, 6 cooked and crumbled Bacon Slices, and 2 tbsp Cilantro.  Works great with tortilla chips. Isn't everything better with bacon???


CREAMY CRAB DIP
Stir together 12 oz. fresh Lump Crabmeat, (don't use imitation) drained and picked free of shells; 1/2 cup Sour Cream; 1/2 cup Mayo; 1/3 cup Scallions; 2 tbsp Lemon Juice; 1 tbsp Parsley, and 1 tbsp Old Bay Seasoning.  Top with fresh Chives.  Serve  with celery sticks or crackers. 


NASHVILLE HOT CHICKEN DIP - Someone is sure to bring chicken wings-lol
Microwave 3 softened -oz packages Cream Cheese on high until melted, 1-2 minutes, stirring after a minute.  Stir in 3/4 cup Buttermilk, 6 tbsp honey, 1 1/2 tsp Cayenne Pepper and 3/4 tsp Garlic Powder. Microwave on high until hot, 2-3 minutes.  Top with 1 tbsp sliced Scallions.  Serve with wings instead of Blue Cheese Dressing.


Hector Manuel Sanchez
SUCCOTASH SALSA DIP
Stir together 1 pt. grape tomatoes, diced; 1 (15.25-oz.) can baby lima beans, drained; 1 (15.25-oz.) can whole-kernel yellow corn, drained; 1/2 cup finely chopped sweet onion; 1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil; 3 Tbsp. chopped fresh flat-leaf parsley; 3 Tbsp. white wine vinegar; 1 tsp. kosher salt; and 3/4 tsp. black pepper in a medium bowl. Serve with scoop-style corn chips.




President William Henry Harrison served a very brief term.  He caught pneumonia during his inauguration and sadly died just 31 days later.

President William Taft was the only president to also serve as the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court.
President:1909 - 1913 and Chief Justice: 1921 - 1930


Did you know that you can get on the waiting list of your fave restaurant right from your phone to save time?  You can also see the waiting list of various restuarants in advance so you can arrange your schedule accordingly. Visit www.nowait.com for more info.

If you're a trivia junkie like I am, you're gonna love this FREE App called Trivia Crack!  It has a 4.5 rating from Google Playstore, and can be found on Twitter and Facebook.  Show off all that knowledge with friends and family with this fun download.  This is also a great way to keep kids occupied on a day trip.

All fans of The Walking Dead - you don't have much longer to wait. Set your DVRs for 9pm on AMC, February 12.  No, I do not like Zombie movies, tv programs or books. (lol)


Saturday, January 21, 2017

WEDDING DEALS & SWEEPSTAKES 2017

If you're getting married and looking for unique ideas, PINTEREST is a great place to visit. Attending Bridal Expos and Wedding Shows is also a fantastic way to get freebies, bargains and package deals that may not be listed publicly.

Speaking of Pinterest, here is a great sweepstakes you can win just by pinning your wedding plans and ideas!  Enter one time only at www.maggiesottero.com no later than January 31, 2017.  You'll have the chance to win a wedding gown, a trip to Fiji that includes hotel accommodations and airfare & $1000.  All of the details, along with the entry form are listed on the site.  Then head over to Pinterest to get started!                                                                                                                       
The Great Bridal Expo is a large event held for brides to be throughout various cities in the United States.  The fee is minimal, and there are lots of benefits for attending this exciting annual show.  A few of the participating cities are listed below.  Click on the city below to find out more information from their website.



Boston, Massachusetts 1-29-17
Sunday, January 29, 2017 12:00 pm
Westin Boston Waterfront
Ft Lauderdale, Florida 2-4-17
Saturday, February 04, 2017 12:00 pm
Bonaventure Resort & Spa
Miami, Florida 2-12-17
Sunday, February 12, 2017 12:00 pm
Conrad Miami
Orlando, Florida 2-19-17
Sunday, February 19, 2017 12:00 pm
Doubletree by Hilton Orlando at SeaWorld
Phoenix, Arizona 2-26-17
Sunday, February 26, 2017 12:00 pm
Phoenix Convention Center
Dallas, Texas 3-5-17
Sunday, March 05, 2017 12:00 pm
Hyatt Regency Dallas
Baltimore, Maryland 3-12-17
Sunday, March 12, 2017 12:00 pm
Martin's Valley Mansion
Los Angeles, California 3-19-17
Sunday, March 19, 2017 12:00 pm 






Shape Spa Retreat $15,000 Sweepstakes

Do you want to get in shape BEFORE the wedding?  Here's a great sweepstakes that's easy to enter, and a great way to relax before the big day! One (1) winner will WIN $15,000 for a spa retreat! No purchase necessary. Void where prohibited. UNLIMITED ENTRY. Ends: April 12, 2017. 

Are you a first responder, or in the military and planning to get married?   Check out Brides Across America, which may allow you to receive your dream gown for FREE if you meet all the criteria.  If you don't see your state listed below, or for more information on registering, please visit www.bridesacrossamerica.com or click on the REGISTER Button Below.


Colorado
Compleat Couture
First Friday every month
By Appointment Only
7562 S. University Blvd - Suite A
Centennial, CO
South Carolina
The Barn at Forevermore Farm
April 21, 2017 - 10am-6pm
135 Waldon Rd
Moore, SC

Register




























Before choosing a date for your wedding, try to get an idea about special events going on around the same time. This includes Marathons, NBA All Star Games, Olympics.etc. which could cause a hotel or traffic nightmare for guests coming in from out of town.  If you're a wedding planner, stay away from the month of June!


Friends will be talking about your special day for all the wrong reasons, so ditch that cash bar!  Stay budget friendly and elegant by offering one red and one white wine.  If your bottles are the standard 750 ML, you can expect to get 5-6  wine glasses.  If you decide to use wine boxes which are normally 3 liters, expect to get about 20 glasses.  You can even offer a signature Sangria that's fruity and fun! If the venue allows you to purchase your own wine, that's the best way to go.  


HONEYMOONS - Everyone talks about going on cruises or to the Bahamas after the wedding, but there are lots of other places that may be just as memorable to celebrate.  Here are a few where you can dare to be different:




The Farm at Cape Kidnappers, Hawkes Bay, New Zealand
Brunswicks Islands - North Carolina
Blackberry Farm - Tennessee
Buttermilk Falls Inn - New York
Grand Sirens Rivera Maya Resort and Spa - Mexico
Naples Beach Hotel - Florida


Do some research and look around in the state that's right next door to where you live. You'll be amazed at what's available by driving just a few hours away from home.